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Appreciation Preference Test

Explore whether appreciation feels better when it is private or visible, and general or specific.

Question 1 of 12
1. I enjoy being thanked where other people can hear it.
2. It matters to know exactly which part of my contribution helped.
3. A private message usually feels better than public praise.
4. A warm general thank-you is often enough for me.
5. Shared recognition gives me energy.
6. Concrete examples make appreciation more meaningful to me.
7. Public praise can make it harder for me to take in the message.
8. I do not need details to feel appreciated.
9. I am comfortable when my contribution is mentioned to a group.
10. I value appreciation that names the effect of what I did.
11. I prefer recognition in a one-to-one conversation.
12. The tone of thanks matters more to me than a detailed explanation.

Frequently asked questions

What does this test reflect?

Explore whether appreciation feels better when it is private or visible, and general or specific.

How is the result calculated?

Visibility / Specificity: 0–12 / 13–24.

Is this a diagnosis?

Explore whether appreciation feels better when it is private or visible, and general or specific.

Can the result change?

This reflects a communication preference, not your worth, ability or a diagnosis.

What can I try next?

Use the result to tell one person where, and with how much detail, appreciation is easiest for you to receive.